why does my happily ever after... need a Prince Charming, is it really that alarming, that I don't want an Adam, a Phillip, or even a Ferdinand, none of my aspirations are that grand, neither do I care for an Eric or Aladdin, these suggestions only serve to make further madden, why can't I be a Merida or a Raya, an Elsa, a Moana, a Mulan without a sigh of, 'she doesn't know what she's talking about', 'leave her alone, she'll back out,' back out of what? this pity party idea, that I need to capture someone else's philia, I am not disillusioned when I say, I don't give a **** about that in any way.